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From: luise_f
Date: Thu Mar 6, 2003 5:40pm
Subject: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
Blue Chip / Bailey,
I think all the ladies here would greatly enjoy being a spy on the
wall if you two were trying to chat up women doing that stuff.
This is all smoke and waffle anyway...you two would be a lot smoother
than that, you pair of foxes :-)
You're probably right about blokes never noticing the finer details:
the extension of that logic is that women would make better
mentalists, non?
Anyway, I've just gone and bought Corinda 13 Steps, la la!
Let the learning commence ;-)
--- In a previous message Blue Chip wrote:
> I quite enjoy watching breathing rates, when they say "excuse me,
the
> conversation is happening up here" I just say "It's alright. I'm
not
> staring at your 7175, just monitoring your breathing rate" ;) LOL
>
> And you do have one more than valid point. Blokes ARE all blind,
blushing
> is far too subtle a hint when all he is aware of is the torrent of
raging
> whoremoans pumping up and down inside, generally making him say
really
> stupid things like "you have lovely skin, what kind of cream do you
put on
> your face... ... only kidding... ... your skin's quite wrinkly
really"
>
> At 16:49 06/03/03 +0000, you wrote:
> >I've a load of mp3s with the innuendo ("patterns" yeah right) I
don't think
> >I could use them.
> >Blatant filth. That's what they want and by golly that's what I do
well.
> >Just before I crash and burn.
> >:)
> >Do a search for mp3s about anchoring better than the books. ergh
some of
> >them are so dull.
> >
> >Well, woman notice body language/ blushes/ totally obvious signs
so much
> >better than men, Who are in fact blind to them you'd be better off
going
> >total red just to see if he sees anything at all.
> >
> >- I've been looking for ages and I still can't see changes.
> >Breathing rates
> >I can but not much else.
> >
> >
> > >From: "luise_f"
> > >Reply-To:
> > >To:
> > >Subject: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
> > >Date: Thu, 06 Mar 2003 15:45:34 -0000
> > >
> > >
> > >mrb bailey
> > >
> > >I probably should do that if it happens again - start talking to
them
> > >in speed seduction lingo. I'm obviously far *too* kind to make
them
> > >crumple, I'd be more likely to simply excuse myself. (note to
self:
> > >give inner bitch some exercise :-)
> > >
> > >The time it was most blatant was when this guy was doing
the 'sex'
> > >one - you know where you bombard the bird with tons of sexual
> > >innuendo but keep saying 'only kidding'? Then apparently she'll
want
> > >to go home with you. He was really incredibly foul.
> > >
> > >It's nice to hear you think I should keep the blush :-)
Ultimately I
> > >don't think there's a great deal I can really do to conceal it,
maybe
> > >just control it a little. It's not that its disfiguring, (not
that
> > >bad!) but it generally only happens if I *like* someone. You know
> > >what I mean. And that's a big handicap in this domain of people
> > >reading!
> > >
> > >The anchoring is something I should practise more. Time to dig
the
> > >aged NLP tomes out again.
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >--- In a previous message mrb_bailey wrote:
> > > > The blush thing sounds like it could use a bit of altered
state
> > >help.
> > > >
> > > > When don't you blush? What are you doing, seeing, hearing
all the
> > > > other visualisation stuff.
> > > >
> > > > When do you blush?
> > > >
> > > > Anchor the not blushing (by what ever means works for you) to
just
> > > > before the blush state.
> > > >
> > > > So the next time you feel you are going to blush you have to
go
> > > > through all that stuff that doesn't make you blush.
> > > > -
> > > >
> > > > I think you should keep the blush. Means there's something
going
> > > > on, on the inside.
> > > >
> > > > --
> > > > I've found personal anchoring to be really useful. The curve
on the
> > > > top of my monitor is the shape of where my shoulders should
be when
> > > > I'm relaxed. I then sit up straight to get my shoulders
right. I
> > > > caught myself doing this several times. Which is when I like
to
> > > > reinforce it. Might be all wrong NLP wise; but it gets me to
sit
> > > > properly So I'll take it.
> > > > ---
> > > >
> > > > As for the speed seduction, Hearing anything done badly will
sound
> > > > painful. Hearing it done well, will work. But on a different
level
> > >as
> > > > you know what's being done and you can enjoy the show. Like
seeing
> > >a
> > > > magician doing tricks you know; but filling the stage with
energy.
> > > >
> > > > Speed seduction has worked for me as in so much as, to get
> > > > interesting answers you have to ask interesting questions, and
> > > > interesting questions work with everyone at any time on any
level
> > > > about any thing.
> > > >
> > > > Plus feel lucky you didn't hear the person before they learnt
> > > > anything about Speed seduction. Watch some bloke nervously or
> > > > drunkenly bore a girl to death with work details would be way
worse.
> > > >
> > > > For a laugh you should go up to them and help or tell them
what
> > >they
> > > > are doing. Might make for an interesting viewing as their
shield
> > >and
> > > > confidence collapse.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > By the way. if you think all of the above is rubbish - you
might be
> > > > right... :)
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > --- In a previous message luise_f wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Bluechip:
> > > > >
> > > > > I'll try your concepts out on my squeeze later tonight, but
it's
> > > > > tricky due to his having the advantage of an olive-skinned
> > > > complexion.
> > > > >
> > > > > Will report back on test results tomorrow. :-)
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > ;)
> > >
> >
> >
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