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From: Blue Chip
Date: Thu Mar 6, 2003 4:56pm
Subject: Re: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
I quite enjoy watching breathing rates, when they say "excuse me, the
conversation is happening up here" I just say "It's alright. I'm not
staring at your 7175, just monitoring your breathing rate" ;) LOL
And you do have one more than valid point. Blokes ARE all blind, blushing
is far too subtle a hint when all he is aware of is the torrent of raging
whoremoans pumping up and down inside, generally making him say really
stupid things like "you have lovely skin, what kind of cream do you put on
your face... ... only kidding... ... your skin's quite wrinkly really"
At 16:49 06/03/03 +0000, you wrote:
>I've a load of mp3s with the innuendo ("patterns" yeah right) I don't think
>I could use them.
>Blatant filth. That's what they want and by golly that's what I do well.
>Just before I crash and burn.
>:)
>Do a search for mp3s about anchoring better than the books. ergh some of
>them are so dull.
>
>Well, woman notice body language/ blushes/ totally obvious signs so much
>better than men, Who are in fact blind to them you'd be better off going
>total red just to see if he sees anything at all.
>
>- I've been looking for ages and I still can't see changes.
>Breathing rates
>I can but not much else.
>
>
> >From: "luise_f"
> >Reply-To:
> >To:
> >Subject: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
> >Date: Thu, 06 Mar 2003 15:45:34 -0000
> >
> >
> >mrb bailey
> >
> >I probably should do that if it happens again - start talking to them
> >in speed seduction lingo. I'm obviously far *too* kind to make them
> >crumple, I'd be more likely to simply excuse myself. (note to self:
> >give inner bitch some exercise :-)
> >
> >The time it was most blatant was when this guy was doing the 'sex'
> >one - you know where you bombard the bird with tons of sexual
> >innuendo but keep saying 'only kidding'? Then apparently she'll want
> >to go home with you. He was really incredibly foul.
> >
> >It's nice to hear you think I should keep the blush :-) Ultimately I
> >don't think there's a great deal I can really do to conceal it, maybe
> >just control it a little. It's not that its disfiguring, (not that
> >bad!) but it generally only happens if I *like* someone. You know
> >what I mean. And that's a big handicap in this domain of people
> >reading!
> >
> >The anchoring is something I should practise more. Time to dig the
> >aged NLP tomes out again.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >--- In a previous message mrb_bailey wrote:
> > > The blush thing sounds like it could use a bit of altered state
> >help.
> > >
> > > When don't you blush? What are you doing, seeing, hearing all the
> > > other visualisation stuff.
> > >
> > > When do you blush?
> > >
> > > Anchor the not blushing (by what ever means works for you) to just
> > > before the blush state.
> > >
> > > So the next time you feel you are going to blush you have to go
> > > through all that stuff that doesn't make you blush.
> > > -
> > >
> > > I think you should keep the blush. Means there's something going
> > > on, on the inside.
> > >
> > > --
> > > I've found personal anchoring to be really useful. The curve on the
> > > top of my monitor is the shape of where my shoulders should be when
> > > I'm relaxed. I then sit up straight to get my shoulders right. I
> > > caught myself doing this several times. Which is when I like to
> > > reinforce it. Might be all wrong NLP wise; but it gets me to sit
> > > properly So I'll take it.
> > > ---
> > >
> > > As for the speed seduction, Hearing anything done badly will sound
> > > painful. Hearing it done well, will work. But on a different level
> >as
> > > you know what's being done and you can enjoy the show. Like seeing
> >a
> > > magician doing tricks you know; but filling the stage with energy.
> > >
> > > Speed seduction has worked for me as in so much as, to get
> > > interesting answers you have to ask interesting questions, and
> > > interesting questions work with everyone at any time on any level
> > > about any thing.
> > >
> > > Plus feel lucky you didn't hear the person before they learnt
> > > anything about Speed seduction. Watch some bloke nervously or
> > > drunkenly bore a girl to death with work details would be way worse.
> > >
> > > For a laugh you should go up to them and help or tell them what
> >they
> > > are doing. Might make for an interesting viewing as their shield
> >and
> > > confidence collapse.
> > >
> > >
> > > By the way. if you think all of the above is rubbish - you might be
> > > right... :)
> > >
> > >
> > > --- In a previous message luise_f wrote:
> > > >
> > > > Bluechip:
> > > >
> > > > I'll try your concepts out on my squeeze later tonight, but it's
> > > > tricky due to his having the advantage of an olive-skinned
> > > complexion.
> > > >
> > > > Will report back on test results tomorrow. :-)
> > > >
> > > >
> > > > ;)
> >
>
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| Replies | Author | Yahoo! ID | Date | Size |
| 3133: Re: Speed Seduction et al | luise_f | luise_f | Thu 06/03/2003 | 8 KB |
| 3142: Re: Speed Seduction et al | Blue Chip | cs_bluechip | Thu 06/03/2003 | 10 KB |
