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From: Boyce Bailey
Date: Fri Mar 7, 2003 9:46am
Subject: Re: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
Well just about every program that has had something to do with the
differences between men and woman say the same sort or things.
Usually. Men can only do one thing at a time and can do 3d work and read
maps in their head.
Women can do 100 things at once have better communication skills and notice
what states people are in from 1000 pictures of faces.
And are scared of spiders, Ha Ha Ha.
Which I've always read as total crap. 60 percent of the population might be
like this. but the other 40 tell you to piss off when you go near them with
a clip board to ask questions.
I had to learn the better communication skills, I'm trying to see what faces
and bodies are doing. That's two things at once.
And if you go near me with a spider I'll kill you and then the spider with a
big big shoe.
If you heard me chat up a girl you'd be in the corner with my friends doing
aeroplane wings with your arms and something that looks like crashing and
burning gestures.
:)
>
>
>Blue Chip / Bailey,
>
>I think all the ladies here would greatly enjoy being a spy on the
>wall if you two were trying to chat up women doing that stuff.
>
>This is all smoke and waffle anyway...you two would be a lot smoother
>than that, you pair of foxes :-)
>
>You're probably right about blokes never noticing the finer details:
>the extension of that logic is that women would make better
>mentalists, non?
>
>Anyway, I've just gone and bought Corinda 13 Steps, la la!
>Let the learning commence ;-)
>
>
>--- In a previous message Blue Chip wrote:
> > I quite enjoy watching breathing rates, when they say "excuse me,
>the
> > conversation is happening up here" I just say "It's alright. I'm
>not
> > staring at your 7175, just monitoring your breathing rate" ;) LOL
> >
> > And you do have one more than valid point. Blokes ARE all blind,
>blushing
> > is far too subtle a hint when all he is aware of is the torrent of
>raging
> > whoremoans pumping up and down inside, generally making him say
>really
> > stupid things like "you have lovely skin, what kind of cream do you
>put on
> > your face... ... only kidding... ... your skin's quite wrinkly
>really"
> >
> > At 16:49 06/03/03 +0000, you wrote:
> > >I've a load of mp3s with the innuendo ("patterns" yeah right) I
>don't think
> > >I could use them.
> > >Blatant filth. That's what they want and by golly that's what I do
>well.
> > >Just before I crash and burn.
> > >:)
> > >Do a search for mp3s about anchoring better than the books. ergh
>some of
> > >them are so dull.
> > >
> > >Well, woman notice body language/ blushes/ totally obvious signs
>so much
> > >better than men, Who are in fact blind to them you'd be better off
>going
> > >total red just to see if he sees anything at all.
> > >
> > >- I've been looking for ages and I still can't see changes.
> > >Breathing rates
> > >I can but not much else.
> > >
> > >
> > > >From: "luise_f"
> > > >Reply-To:
> > > >To:
> > > >Subject: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
> > > >Date: Thu, 06 Mar 2003 15:45:34 -0000
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >mrb bailey
> > > >
> > > >I probably should do that if it happens again - start talking to
>them
> > > >in speed seduction lingo. I'm obviously far *too* kind to make
>them
> > > >crumple, I'd be more likely to simply excuse myself. (note to
>self:
> > > >give inner bitch some exercise :-)
> > > >
> > > >The time it was most blatant was when this guy was doing
>the 'sex'
> > > >one - you know where you bombard the bird with tons of sexual
> > > >innuendo but keep saying 'only kidding'? Then apparently she'll
>want
> > > >to go home with you. He was really incredibly foul.
> > > >
> > > >It's nice to hear you think I should keep the blush :-)
>Ultimately I
> > > >don't think there's a great deal I can really do to conceal it,
>maybe
> > > >just control it a little. It's not that its disfiguring, (not
>that
> > > >bad!) but it generally only happens if I *like* someone. You know
> > > >what I mean. And that's a big handicap in this domain of people
> > > >reading!
> > > >
> > > >The anchoring is something I should practise more. Time to dig
>the
> > > >aged NLP tomes out again.
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >
> > > >--- In a previous message mrb_bailey wrote:
> > > > > The blush thing sounds like it could use a bit of altered
>state
> > > >help.
> > > > >
> > > > > When don't you blush? What are you doing, seeing, hearing
>all the
> > > > > other visualisation stuff.
> > > > >
> > > > > When do you blush?
> > > > >
> > > > > Anchor the not blushing (by what ever means works for you) to
>just
> > > > > before the blush state.
> > > > >
> > > > > So the next time you feel you are going to blush you have to
>go
> > > > > through all that stuff that doesn't make you blush.
> > > > > -
> > > > >
> > > > > I think you should keep the blush. Means there's something
>going
> > > > > on, on the inside.
> > > > >
> > > > > --
> > > > > I've found personal anchoring to be really useful. The curve
>on the
> > > > > top of my monitor is the shape of where my shoulders should
>be when
> > > > > I'm relaxed. I then sit up straight to get my shoulders
>right. I
> > > > > caught myself doing this several times. Which is when I like
>to
> > > > > reinforce it. Might be all wrong NLP wise; but it gets me to
>sit
> > > > > properly So I'll take it.
> > > > > ---
> > > > >
> > > > > As for the speed seduction, Hearing anything done badly will
>sound
> > > > > painful. Hearing it done well, will work. But on a different
>level
> > > >as
> > > > > you know what's being done and you can enjoy the show. Like
>seeing
> > > >a
> > > > > magician doing tricks you know; but filling the stage with
>energy.
> > > > >
> > > > > Speed seduction has worked for me as in so much as, to get
> > > > > interesting answers you have to ask interesting questions, and
> > > > > interesting questions work with everyone at any time on any
>level
> > > > > about any thing.
> > > > >
> > > > > Plus feel lucky you didn't hear the person before they learnt
> > > > > anything about Speed seduction. Watch some bloke nervously or
> > > > > drunkenly bore a girl to death with work details would be way
>worse.
> > > > >
> > > > > For a laugh you should go up to them and help or tell them
>what
> > > >they
> > > > > are doing. Might make for an interesting viewing as their
>shield
> > > >and
> > > > > confidence collapse.
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > By the way. if you think all of the above is rubbish - you
>might be
> > > > > right... :)
> > > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In a previous message luise_f wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Bluechip:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I'll try your concepts out on my squeeze later tonight, but
>it's
> > > > > > tricky due to his having the advantage of an olive-skinned
> > > > > complexion.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Will report back on test results tomorrow. :-)
> > > > > >
> > > > > >
> > > > > > ;)
> > > >
> > >
> > >
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| Replies | Author | Yahoo! ID | Date | Size | |
| 3157: Re: Speed Seduction et al | luise_f | luise_f | Fri 07/03/2003 | 10 KB | |
| 3158: Re: Speed Seduction et al | mrb_bailey | mrb_bailey | Fri 07/03/2003 | 11 KB | |
| 3159: Re: Speed Seduction et al | luise_f | luise_f | Fri 07/03/2003 | 12 KB | |
| 3160: Re: Speed Seduction et al | mrb_bailey | mrb_bailey | Fri 07/03/2003 | 13 KB |
