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From: designforlife
Date: Mon Mar 10, 2003 3:05am
Subject: [Derren Brown] Re: Speed Seduction et al
--- In a previous message luise_f wrote:
It's not that its disfiguring, (not that
> bad!)
Of couse it's not. You mightn't find blushing charming in others, but
how do you they don't find it charming in you? It's just part of your
personality. And seeing as it's not a genuine handicap, why change it?
Hypnotising your bad habits away is just botox for the psyche.
>Time to dig the aged NLP tomes out again.
Nah, leave 'em where they are. Or I might have to warn everybody
about Digestive States, and I just don't think you're all ready. :)
>
> --- In a previous message mrb_bailey wrote:
> > The blush thing sounds like it could use a bit of altered state
> help.
> >
> > When don't you blush? What are you doing, seeing, hearing – all
the
> > other visualisation stuff.
> >
> > When do you blush?
> >
> > Anchor the not blushing (by what ever means works for you) to
just
> > before the blush state.
> >
> > So the next time you feel you are going to blush you have to go
> > through all that stuff that doesn't make you blush.
> > -
> >
> > I think you should keep the blush. – Means there's something
going
> > on, on the inside.
> >
> > --
> > I've found personal anchoring to be really useful. The curve on
the
> > top of my monitor is the shape of where my shoulders should be
when
> > I'm relaxed. I then sit up straight to get my shoulders right. I
> > caught myself doing this several times. Which is when I like to
> > reinforce it. Might be all wrong NLP wise; but it gets me to sit
> > properly – So I'll take it.
> > ---
> >
> > As for the speed seduction, Hearing anything done badly will
sound
> > painful. Hearing it done well, will work. But on a different
level
> as
> > you know what's being done and you can enjoy the show. Like
seeing
> a
> > magician doing tricks you know; but filling the stage with energy.
> >
> > Speed seduction has worked for me as in so much as, to get
> > interesting answers you have to ask interesting questions, and
> > interesting questions work with everyone at any time on any level
> > about any thing.
> >
> > Plus feel lucky you didn't hear the person before they learnt
> > anything about Speed seduction. Watch some bloke nervously or
> > drunkenly bore a girl to death with work details would be way
worse.
> >
> > For a laugh you should go up to them and help or tell them what
> they
> > are doing. Might make for an interesting viewing as their shield
> and
> > confidence collapse.
> >
> >
> > By the way. if you think all of the above is rubbish - you might
be
> > right... :)
> >
> >
> > --- In a previous message luise_f wrote:
> > >
> > > Bluechip:
> > >
> > > I'll try your concepts out on my squeeze later tonight, but
it's
> > > tricky due to his having the advantage of an olive-skinned
> > complexion.
> > >
> > > Will report back on test results tomorrow. :-)
> > >
> > >
> > > ;)
| Replies | Author | Yahoo! ID | Date | Size |
| 3257: Re: Speed Seduction et al | Blue Chip | cs_bluechip | Mon 10/03/2003 | 2 KB |
| 3258: Re: Speed Seduction et al | designforlife | designforlife | Mon 10/03/2003 | 2 KB |
