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From: gameer_77
Date: Thu Jan 30, 2003 9:56pm
Subject: Re: hand clasp technique
--- In a previous message bingomite wrote:
> hello .. first post in a long time ..
>
> i remember when someone first posted the link about emile coue and
i
> thought il give it a go on my sister, i didnt think for one minute
> it would work yet i just belived and to my suprise her hands locked
> together and im not sure who was more scared me or her. i then
tried
> the same on my mam and dad where it worked to and the reaction from
> my dad was the best as he just stood staring at his hands for 30
> seconds struggling to unclasp them while we were all in fits of
> laughter. maybe my family are all very suggestable :-)
>
> my tips would be to just belive in yourself and sound confident as
> if you dont theres no way the other person will believe in what
your
> doing.when you start say something like let me try something on you
> to see how powerfull your imagination is and not sometjhing like
hey
> im going to stick your hands together as they wont take any notice
of
> you. the key for me is when you get them to fall backwards into
your
> arms as it shows they trust you and are suggestable to what you are
> saying, keep getting them to fall back into your arms before you do
> the hand clasp and if they dont fall back they wont clasp their
> hands. also just try to keep eye contact to make sure they are
taking
> in what you say.
>
> goodluck.
>
> p.s dont panic like me if you do manage to do it and calmly say
you
> can unclasp your hands :-)
Thanks man,
I tried to ask me mum and sis tonight to do it with me, but they
couldn't care less... :(
I tried it last night, when i'm supposedly most receptive, on myself
and it kind of worked...
I pretended i was the dude doing the suggesting in my head, and done
the whole count to 3 thing.
What happened was i removed my hands a little so the palms weren't
touching but the fingers were still together, then it felt odd :p
I tried to pull and felt my arms tighten, then i kinda lost it, and i
could pull it apart :/ :D
Try again t'night though, thanks :)
Just wish my family were as good as yours...
Although i did try it before, but my mum didn't really believe me so
it didn't work - and i didn't do the falling over thing, thought she
might hurt herself :p
Thanks
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2647: Re: hand clasp technique | gameer_77 | gameer_77 | Mon 03/02/2003 | 3 KB |
2657: Re: hand clasp technique | Rob Dobson | northerncomfortuk | Mon 03/02/2003 | 3 KB |
2650: Re: hand clasp technique | mark | captologism | Mon 03/02/2003 | 3 KB |
2652: Re: hand clasp technique | gameer_77 | gameer_77 | Mon 03/02/2003 | 2 KB |